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How to handle an anxious child

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 21 August 2020.

Published on August 21, 2020, anxiety is a common issue that affects people of all ages. However, it's particularly challenging for children who struggle to process their feelings and express themselves.

Children often have trouble communicating their emotions, making it difficult for parents to understand what they're going through. To help your child manage anxiety, it's essential to pay attention to signs of distress, such as trouble sleeping and irritability.

Once you've identified the issue, you can learn the right things to say and do to calm your child down. Some effective phrases to use include:

  • 'I'm here, don't worry.'
  • 'What's making you afraid?'
  • 'I know how you feel.'
  • 'How can I make you feel better?'
  • 'This feeling will pass.'
  • 'You are strong.'

It's crucial to acknowledge your child's feelings and validate their emotions, even if their fears are not based on reality. By doing so, you can help them feel heard and understood.

Effective communication is key in managing anxiety. Avoid criticizing or bashing your child, as this can exacerbate the issue. Instead, use reassuring words to help them feel calm and secure.

As a parent, it's essential to empower your child to take control of their feelings and fears. By doing so, you can help them develop coping mechanisms and learn to manage anxiety on their own.

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