This archive report was first published on 7 August 2020.
Media personality Ciku Muiruri has sparked controversy with her advice on dating married men. In a recent post, she shared her 'Dummies Guide to Dating a Married Man,' which includes tips on how to fulfill his fantasies and get something in return.
According to Ciku, women should 'fulfil all his fantasies: Whatever (and I do mean WHATEVER) he wants, be sure to provide it, but not all at once. Give in to his fantasies one by one and space them out.'
She also emphasized the importance of getting something out of the relationship, stating, 'You MUST get something out of this relationship. I cannot stress this enough. It doesn’t make you a tramp (sleeping with a married man already accomplished that!). It just makes you… pragmatic.'
Reactions from her followers have been mixed, with some praising her honesty and others condemning her advice as unbiblical and promoting adultery.
As one follower, Senior Chaplain Mulyungi, pointed out, 'Completely unbiblical – that’s adultery.'
Others, like Antony B Gacheru, have praised Ciku's efforts, saying, 'We as team mafisi will reward you for this, your efforts can not go unnoticed.'
However, not everyone is convinced by Ciku's advice. Oyugi Kevin, for example, stated, 'As much as some things happen in our society, normalizing it (mpango wa kando) does not make it right. But promoting it this way is very disgusting.'
