This archive report was first published on 18 July 2020.
Published on July 18, 2020
By Joan Thatiah
Will and Jada Smith's recent confession about their 'entanglement' with singer August Alsina has left many feeling betrayed. But what's more disturbing is the way we, as a society, have become obsessed with the lives of celebrities.
For 22 years, the Smiths have portrayed a perfect marriage to the media and online. But is it really perfect, or is it just an illusion created for the sake of entertainment?
As American writer Andrea Dworkin once said, 'The sun never stops shining, regardless of what others think.' But today's Kenyan woman seems to be the opposite - constantly seeking affirmation and validation from strangers and celebrities who have no clue that she exists.
Before making a decision, she'll post on a group with thousands of members, none of whom she's met. She'll make important decisions based on what an Insta-model or influencer says, and believe that marriage can be perfect because Will Smith and his wife paint an ideal one.
But let's not forget that the lives of celebrities are show business. They earn money based on how much fuss they can create around themselves. So, when you see a celebrity posting pictures of their life by the hour, remember that there's a full movie crew behind the scenes, and that they're not just living their lives - they're selling an illusion.
Before you use someone on the internet as a benchmark, remember that whatever you see or hear may not be true. They may not even believe those things they post or sing in their songs.
