This archive report was first published on 14 July 2020.
When a friend and her husband asked for a large loan, a couple politely declined, citing a previous negative experience. However, the friend's behavior has since become increasingly hostile, with her questioning the couple's spending habits and making snide comments.
The situation has become even more complicated with the friend's family getting involved, with her sending unpleasant texts and refusing to meet with the couple. The couple's children, who are also friends with the loan-seeker's kids, are missing out on their friendship due to the tension.
As the situation continues to deteriorate, the couple is left wondering whether to end the friendship or try to salvage it. A reader suggests that the couple has done nothing wrong and should back off, allowing the friend to realize the impact of her behavior and potentially change her attitude.
Ultimately, the couple must decide what is best for their relationship and their children, but it's clear that the refusal of the loan has caused a significant strain on their friendship.
