This archive report was first published on 14 July 2020.
Love bombing, a phenomenon where excessive love and attention become suffocating, is a red flag in relationships. In a recent letter to Nyakundi Report, a concerned reader, Olive, shared her experience of feeling overwhelmed by her fiancé's relatives.
According to Olive, her fiancé's family has been showering her with love and attention, adding her to every Zoom call, calling her incessantly, and even visiting her at home unannounced. While it may seem like a loving gesture, Olive is starting to wonder if there's something more sinister at play.
Nyakundi Report's Brenda advises Olive to investigate the family's history, suggesting that they might be hiding something. 'Maybe they're just a loving family,' Brenda writes, 'but start putting your phone in Do Not Disturb mode, surely.' Alternatively, it could be a scam or a sign that Olive doesn't deserve to be treated well.
Love bombing is a tactic often used by individuals or families trying to hide something, and it's essential to recognize the signs. If you're feeling overwhelmed by excessive love and attention, it may be time to take a step back and investigate further.
