This archive report was first published on 9 July 2020.
Aoko Otieno: 9 Things Women Do in Bed That Men Hate ¶
Published on July 9, 2020
Kenyan author Aoko Otieno has gained a significant following for her candid advice on relationships and sex. In her latest post, she shares her insights on what women do in bed that men find unappealing.
According to Otieno, men hate it when women are lazy in bed, failing to initiate sex or reciprocate their partner's advances. She also advises women to communicate their pleasure during sex, but to avoid screaming like a maniac or making too much noise.
Other things women do in bed that men hate include wearing unsightly clothing, such as faded t-shirts or thick cotton pyjamas, and bringing up messy issues like money or relationships during intimate moments.
Additionally, Otieno warns women against faking orgasms, suggesting that if they must do so, they should be good at it and not let their partner know. She also encourages women to be more adventurous in bed, trying out different positions and styles to keep sex exciting and fun.
Finally, Otieno advises women to put their phones away during sex, avoiding distractions and allowing themselves to fully engage with their partner.