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The Jealous Friend: Signs and How to Deal

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 3 July 2020.

Jealousy can be a complex and damaging emotion in friendships. According to a 2020 article by Lolita Bunde, it's common to have a friend who is jealous of you, but when this jealousy turns toxic, it's time to take a step back and evaluate the friendship.

Some signs of a jealous friend include wishing they had your life and everything you own, owning the same things as you, and constantly asking for your opinion only to do the opposite. If you're scared to share your achievements or problems with your friend, it may be a sign of a toxic relationship.

So, how do you deal with a jealous friend? The first step is to evaluate the friendship and try to figure out when the jealousy started. If it's been a problem from the beginning, it may be time to take charge and set boundaries. Talking to your friend about the issue can also help, but be prepared for a defensive reaction. In some cases, it may be necessary to limit what you share with your friend or widen your social circle to find more supportive relationships.

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