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14 Things Women Want After Sex

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Nyakundi Report

Newsroom 2 min read

This archive report was first published on 29 June 2020.

For many women, sex is not just about physical pleasure, but also about emotional connection and intimacy. However, some men may unintentionally make their partners feel unloved or used after sex.

According to various studies and experts, women often crave more than just the physical high of sex. They want to feel loved, cherished, and appreciated by their partners.

Here are 14 things women may want after sex:

  • To be held to sleep and cuddle as you talk loving words to each other.
  • To be gently kissed on the lips, forehead, and closed eyelids, showing that you still yearn for her.
  • To be told, 'I love you,' confirming that the lovemaking was done out of love.
  • To be touched on her belly, especially if you two are trying to make a baby.
  • To be prayed for, showing that what you two have is sacred.
  • To be told she is beautiful, praising her physical and inner beauty.
  • To be looked at with focus, making her feel wanted before, during, and after sex.
  • To be told how amazing she was, allaying her fears and arresting her questioning whether she is good enough in matters of sex.
  • Play with her fingers and the wedding ring, telling your wife you are only hers.
  • Apologize or forgive, if it was makeup sex, and don't let the issue go unresolved.
  • Stroke her skin, concentrating on the love sensation and not just the physical areas.
  • Cover her with the blanket, protecting her even in bed.
  • Take a shower together, laughing and washing each other, which warms her heart.

By showing your partner love, care, and appreciation after sex, you can strengthen your emotional connection and build a deeper, more meaningful relationship.

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