This archive report was first published on 10 June 2020.
As the COVID-19 pandemic continues to spread, families are being separated by restrictions on movement, causing emotional distress for many.
For Peterson Maasa, a resident of Machakos, the separation from his newborn son has been particularly difficult. His wife, Lucy Mwende, gave birth to their son on March 26, but due to the cessation of movement in and out of Nairobi, Maasa was only able to hold his son once before rushing back to Machakos to take care of his business.
Maasa's wife developed complications after the delivery and had to be readmitted to the hospital, while Maasa was unable to be by her side. The couple's separation has been prolonged, with over 70 days passing since they were last together.
Maasa is not alone in his struggle. Many families are facing similar challenges, with some parents unable to visit their children due to restrictions on movement. Carolyne Lusweti, a mother from Kitale, has been trying to explain to her two children why their father, who works as a banker in Nairobi, is no longer visiting them.
Psychologist Susan Gitau notes that many children are experiencing anxiety and uncertainty about when they will be reunited with their parents. She advises couples to explore different communication options, such as video calls, and to use exercise as a form of release when feeling overwhelmed.
Gitau also emphasizes the importance of honesty and open communication between couples during this challenging time. She suggests that couples should not be afraid to discuss their deepest emotions and seek professional counseling if needed.
As the pandemic continues to spread, families are facing an uncertain future. However, with the right support and communication, they can navigate this difficult time and emerge stronger on the other side.
