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5 Ground Rules to Avoid Drama in Relationships

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This archive report was first published on 10 September 2019.

As the old saying goes, 'love is blind.' However, being in love doesn't mean you should compromise your intelligence or common sense. In fact, being in a relationship requires a healthy dose of reality and communication.

Published on September 10, 2019, a relationship expert shared some valuable advice for ladies navigating the dating world. According to the expert, there are five essential ground rules to avoid drama and maintain a healthy relationship.

1. Don't confuse his friends with yours

It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of a new relationship and assume that your partner's friends are automatically your friends too. However, this is not always the case. His friends may be friendly and welcoming, but they are still his friends, not yours. It's essential to maintain a healthy distance and not get too comfortable with his crew.

2. Respect his football time

Whether it's Manchester United or another team, football is a significant part of many men's lives. When the big game is on, it's best to give your partner some space and let him enjoy the match without interruptions. This will help him relax and enjoy the game, and you can avoid any potential conflicts.

3. Don't pretend to know what you don't

Intelligence is attractive, but faking it is not. If you're not familiar with a particular topic or subject, it's okay to ask your partner to explain it to you. This will not only help you learn something new but also show your partner that you value their knowledge and expertise.

4. Don't assume exclusivity

Exclusivity is not always a given in modern relationships. It's essential to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your expectations and boundaries. Don't assume that just because you're doing couple-y things, you're automatically exclusive. It's better to have an open and honest conversation about your relationship status.

5. Be cautious of female friends

It's natural to be curious about your partner's female friends, but it's essential to respect their boundaries and not jump to conclusions. If your partner assures you that their female friends are just friends, take it at face value. Don't be suspicious or accusatory, as this can create unnecessary tension in the relationship.

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