This archive report was first published on 7 September 2019.
Published on September 7, 2019, by Mariga Thoithi, this article delves into the concept of toxic masculinity and its far-reaching effects on men's lives.
Thoithi shares a personal anecdote about his university days, where he was pressured into drinking beer to fit in with his peers. He recalls the taunts and jokes he faced for not drinking, and how he eventually gave in to avoid being ridiculed.
However, Thoithi's experience is not unique. He notes that toxic masculinity is a pervasive issue that affects men in various ways, from suppressing emotions to engaging in violent behavior. He cites the example of a friend who took his own life due to the pressure to conform to societal expectations.
The article also references a BBC documentary on male suicides in Nyandarua County, highlighting the need for men to open up about their emotions and seek help when needed.
Thoithi concludes that toxic masculinity is a complex issue that requires a nuanced approach. He argues that men need to break free from the expectations placed upon them and learn to express their emotions in a healthy way.
