Four Ways to Get Him to Notice You

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Primary source Kenyan Digest archive

This archive report was first published on 4 September 2019.

Getting a guy to notice you can be frustrating, especially when you're not sure if he even knows you exist. But don't worry, we've got some tips to help you catch his eye and maybe even land a date.

Published on September 4, 2019, these four ways to get him to notice you are tried and tested, and can help you avoid looking like a desperate attention seeker.

1. Make a subtle impression

When you want to get someone's attention, it's easy to try too hard. But this can backfire and make you look like a desperate attention seeker. Instead, try to make a subtle impression by glancing in his direction and flashing a little smile. If you catch his eye, hold it for a short while, but don't overdo it – you don't want to look creepy.

2. Be confident and friendly

When you do catch his eye, make sure you're confident and friendly. Smile, be approachable, and show him that you're interested. But don't come on too strong – you want to keep the conversation light and fun.

3. Be an interesting person

One of the best ways to get someone's attention is to be an interesting person. Talk about something you're passionate about, share a funny story, or mention a recent adventure. This will help keep the conversation flowing and make you more memorable.

4. Be playful and flirtatious

Finally, don't be afraid to be playful and flirtatious. Crack a joke, make a witty comment, or playfully tease him. This will help you build a connection and make him more likely to notice you.

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