This archive report was first published on 3 September 2019.
Rejection is a harsh reality that we all face at some point in our lives. Whether it's a job rejection, a romantic rejection, or a rejection from a social circle, it can be painful and difficult to deal with. However, as the saying goes, 'Inauma lakini inabidi uvumilie' - it hurts, but you have to move on.
On September 3, 2019, Evewoman shared a valuable lesson on how to handle rejection and move on. According to her, the first step is to cut communication with the person who rejected you. This means no more texting, no more calling, and no more social media stalking. It's time to move on and focus on yourself.
Evewoman also advises that you are allowed to rebound. Just because one person rejected you doesn't mean you should give up on love. Keep an open heart and mind, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there again. Remember, 'If you don't feel my vibe, don't interfere when I hit up your homeboy'.
Another important tip is to avoid social media. While it's tempting to post about your new life and how you're doing great without the person who rejected you, it's not worth it. It's better to focus on living your best life and not worrying about what others think. As Evewoman puts it, 'Just go about your business, quit it with the subliminal posts, he's not gonna read them, sis.'
Lastly, don't allow the person who rejected you to contact you. They may try to reach out and apologize or try to rekindle things, but it's best to ignore them. Remember, you are not their customer care or their problem solver. You are a strong and independent individual who deserves better.
As Evewoman so eloquently puts it, 'There's a reason for everything, and being turned down could be a move by the Good Lord to protect you.' So, don't be discouraged by rejection. Instead, use it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Remember, you are fine as the Miami sun mami, and you deserve to find true love.
