This archive report was first published on 3 September 2019.
Published on September 3, 2019, a census in 2009 revealed that approximately 213,000 people in Kenya were divorced, and 355,000 were separated, with a divorce rate of about 20 per cent.
Infidelity and promiscuity are among the leading causes of divorce in Kenya. Many married men struggle with keeping their relationships faithful, while an increasing number of married women are involved in extramarital affairs.
Financial constraints also play a significant role in the breakdown of marriages. When poverty sets in, love often escapes, and couples are driven away by resource constraints.
Communication breakdown is another major challenge in many relationships. Psychologists say that only seven per cent of communication happens verbally, while the rest is through emotions and body language.
Language is key in any relationship. Unless a couple understands each other and the language of love, they may be talking to each other but not communicating effectively.
Suspicion and lack of trust are also common causes of divorce in Kenya. With the rise of social media and mobile phones, cases of suspicion are escalating, affecting many relationships.
Financial squabbles are another leading cause of separation, with around 35 per cent of couples being separated due to financial issues. The Bible says that money is the root of all evil, and it's true that most couples struggle to handle financial matters together.
Disrespect is also a significant factor in the breakdown of marriages, with statistics indicating that a third of all couples split due to issues related to respect. Lack of respect can kill morale and self-esteem and puncture egos.
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