Relationship Dilemma: Should You End It When Your Partner Changes?

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Primary source Kenyan Digest archive

This archive report was first published on 30 August 2019.

Relationships can be challenging, especially when one partner undergoes significant changes. This was the case for a young woman whose girlfriend joined university and changed dramatically in just three weeks.

According to the woman, her girlfriend had been perfect until she started university, but now she's changed and she's not sure if she should proceed with the relationship or terminate it.

Just Brenda, a relationship expert, offered some words of wisdom, saying, 'Unless you mean her fundamentals have changed – i.e. her focus on the relationship, or her values – then there is really nothing to be worried about.'

She also reminded the woman that 'the only constant things in life are taxes, death, and change.' Brenda suggested that if the woman could provide more information about how her girlfriend has changed, she might be able to offer more guidance.

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