Red Flags: 8 Signs Your Partner May Be Cheating

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Nyakundi Report

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Primary source Kenyan Digest archive

This archive report was first published on 29 August 2019.

Relationships can be challenging, especially when one partner cheats. Women are often the primary victims, and many stay in abusive marriages for the sake of their children.

However, being aware of the signs can help you make informed decisions about your relationship. Here are eight red flags that may indicate your partner is cheating:

1. Sudden Niceness

If your partner has a history of mistreating you, but suddenly becomes extremely nice, it may be a sign that they're compensating for their guilt over cheating.

2. Upgraded Image

When your partner starts buying expensive items like colognes, shoes, and watches, it could be a sign that they're trying to impress someone else. A cheating partner may upgrade their style and dress code.

3. Condoms

Carrying condoms without a valid reason can be a sign that your partner is cheating. Why would they need condoms if you're not using them?

4. Complicated Phone Passwords

If your partner suddenly starts using complicated passwords on their phone, it may indicate that they're hiding something from you.

5. Excuses and Lies

When your partner starts telling you stories that don't add up, it's a sign that they're not being truthful. Be cautious and consider ending the relationship before it's too late.

6. New Friends

If your partner starts hanging out with new friends, it may be a sign that they're trying to distance themselves from you. This could be a sign that they're cheating.

7. Different Scents

If your partner comes home smelling different, it could be a sign that they're cheating. Be aware of any changes in their behavior or appearance.

8. Empty Call Logs

If your partner's call log is always empty, it may be a sign that they're deleting their conversations before they get home. This could be a sign that they're cheating.

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