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Six Signs That He's the One

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Nyakundi Report

Newsroom 2 min read

This archive report was first published on 23 August 2019.

August 23, 2019, marked a significant day for many individuals as they searched for that special someone. But have you ever wondered how to know if your partner is truly the one for you?

Here are six signs that can help you identify if your partner is a keeper.

1. They're Your Go-To Person

When something good or bad happens, they're the first person you want to share it with. Your partner has become a reliable sounding board for you, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on without judgment.

2. You're Your Authentic Self

When you're with someone you connect with, you automatically become your authentic self. You're comfortable with this person and act as you do when you're alone, without fear of judgment.

3. They Communicate Effectively

A good partner understands that communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. They're consistent with calls and texts when you're apart and engage in meaningful conversations. They also know how to air their issues without offending you or coming across as condescending.

4. They Compromise Easily

It's been said that it's unhealthy for couples not to fight. Couples with an intention of staying together for long have one thing on their mind whenever they argue: they're on the same team. One of you will have to compromise, and they do so without hesitation, putting your needs first.

5. Your Close Friends Approve

Ask yourself if your new lover would get your friends' approval or remind you of unhealthy relationship patterns. Your friends have been there for you through the good, the bad, and the ugly, and they're qualified to give their opinion on your new partner.

6. You're Proud to Call Them Your Partner

Despite any ups and downs, you're proud to have this person by your side, and they feel the same way about you. You're proud to have known each other and have one another, and falling in love is a beautiful thing.

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