This archive report was first published on 21 August 2019.
Published on August 21, 2019, a common perception in Kenya is that some women sleep with multiple sponsors in exchange for financial support, lavish trips, and expensive gifts.
These women, often referred to as 'mpangos wa kando,' have been known to be involved in violent relationships, with some cases resulting in the death of their sponsors or even the women themselves.
For Kenyan bachelors, it's essential to be aware of the potential risks involved in dating such women. Here are five mistakes to avoid:
1. Never have sex in a woman's house. This is a warning to bachelors to be cautious when visiting a woman's home, as they may not be the ones paying the rent.
Experts advise against getting too comfortable in a woman's house, as it can lead to misunderstandings and potential harm.
2. Never pay school fees for a woman who is not your wife or doesn't have your children. This warning highlights the risks of investing in a woman who may not be committed to the relationship.
By paying school fees for a woman who is not your partner, you may be setting yourself up for heartbreak and financial loss.
3. Investing in liabilities and not assets. This warning cautions bachelors against spending too much money on women, instead of investing in assets that can benefit them in the long run.
By prioritizing investments over relationships, bachelors can avoid financial pitfalls and build a more secure future.
4. Having babies with multiple baby mamas. This warning highlights the risks of having multiple partners and the potential consequences of having children with each of them.
By having multiple baby mamas, men may be setting themselves up for financial instability and potential conflict with their partners.
5. Introducing her to your parents. This warning advises bachelors to take their time getting to know a woman before introducing her to their family.
By rushing into relationships and introducing partners to their families too quickly, bachelors may be putting themselves and their loved ones at risk.
