This archive report was first published on 18 August 2019.
At 30, marriage is a pressing concern for many, but for one man, it's complicated by his father's strong disapproval of his partner's past.
According to the man, his girlfriend has a 3-year-old son from a previous relationship, and he knows his father will never accept her as a daughter-in-law.
Published on August 18, 2019, the man's question to advice columnist Just Brenda is a poignant reminder that family expectations can be a significant obstacle in relationships.
Just Brenda's response is a reassuring one, emphasizing that the man doesn't have to get married at 30, and that he has the right to choose his own partner.
She advises the man to talk to his father and explain his reasons for wanting to marry the single mother, and to stand up for his partner and set a precedent for their marriage.
Ultimately, Just Brenda's advice is a reminder that relationships are about love, respect, and communication, and that family expectations should not dictate one's choices.
