This archive report was first published on 13 August 2019.
Published on August 13, 2019, a man shared his dilemma with readers, confessing to still having feelings for his first love, who is now asking to move closer to him.
He fears that his wife will find out about this relationship and cause trouble, but he doesn't want to lose his first love. The man is caught in a difficult situation, trying to balance his love for his wife with his lingering feelings for his first love.
Readers offered their advice, warning the man that his first love is likely using him for her own gain and that he should prioritize his marriage and family.
One reader, Tasma Saka, cautioned that the man's goose will be cooked if his first love moves closer, and he should prepare for a polygamous life. Another reader, Onyango Outha, suggested that the first love is using the man's feelings for her to get back with him.
Relationships counsellor Simon Anyona also weighed in, advising the man to prioritize his marriage and family and not to let his first love manipulate him.
