Words to Avoid with Your Father

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Nyakundi Report

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Primary source Kenyan Digest archive

This archive report was first published on 11 August 2019.

Published on August 11, 2019, a piece of advice cautions against expressing hurtful sentiments to your father, as it can damage your relationship irreparably.

Words can be hurtful, and some phrases are best left unspoken, especially when it comes to your father. Accusing him of not sharing his love with you is one such phrase.

Everyone is unique, and your father loves each of his children differently. Instead of accusing him, try to understand and appreciate his love in its own way.

Another hurtful phrase is 'I hate you.' These strong words can be damaging and are best avoided, regardless of your feelings.

When you say 'Why did you give birth to me,' you're implying that your father didn't want you. However, the truth is that he chose to bring you into this world, and you should be grateful for that.

Accusing your father of not supporting you in your endeavors can also be hurtful. He might not agree with your choices, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

Wishing your father wasn't your father is another phrase that can be damaging. He chose to raise you, and you should appreciate and be thankful for that.

Calling your father a bad example can also be hurtful. Everyone makes mistakes, and forgiveness is key to moving forward.

Lastly, saying 'I'm tired of continuously helping you with money' can be hurtful, especially if your father has helped you in the past. It's time to return the favor and help him out at his old age.

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