This archive report was first published on 10 August 2019.
Seasons of Sex ¶
Sexual relationships, like the weather, have their seasons. There are times when everything is 'hot and sizzling,' and other times when things are 'barely enough' or even 'drought-like.' The key to navigating these seasons is to understand that they are temporary and that each one has its own unique characteristics.
When things are 'plenty, plenty, plenty,' it's essential to acknowledge and appreciate this season. This is a time of abundance, laughter, and better communication. You may find that you're disagreeing less frequently, and when you do, it's with a more positive attitude. It's a time to enjoy each other's company and to make the most of it.
However, when things are 'barely enough,' it can be challenging to accept. You may feel like you're not getting enough, and it's hard to complain. Sex may feel mediocre, and you may struggle to connect with your partner. It's essential to remember that this is just a season and not a state of being. You can find ways to 'irrigate' your relationship and make it more fulfilling.
When things are 'drought-like,' it can be tempting to give up. However, it's essential to remember that seasons come and go. You can always start over and work on reviving your relationship. This may involve seeking the help of a couple's therapist, being more available to your partner, or initiating sex. The key is to take responsibility for your part of the relationship and to work on improving it.
Ultimately, understanding the different seasons of your relationship and sex life can help you navigate them more effectively. By acknowledging that each season is temporary and that you can find ways to improve your relationship, you can move forward with greater awareness and appreciation.
