This archive report was first published on 10 August 2019.
Published on August 10, 2019, a woman shared her dilemma with Nyakundi Report, revealing that she's been dating a married man for some time. She's comfortable in their relationship but has reservations about having another child.
At 38, she has two beautiful children from a past relationship, and she's closed the chapter on childbearing. However, her married boyfriend wants her to bear him a child, promising to cater for it fully. She's torn between her feelings for him and her desire not to have another child.
She's asked for advice on what to do, considering her partner's feelings and the potential consequences of her decision. Some have suggested that she stand her ground and let him understand the terms of their relationship, while others have questioned her motives, labeling her a 'gold digger.'
One reader pointed out that if her boyfriend is willing to cater for the child, he should start by taking care of her two children from her past relationship. This would make sense, but it's a tricky situation, and she'll soon be a single mother of three if she agrees to have another child.
Ultimately, the decision is hers, but it's essential to consider the potential outcomes and her own desires. As one reader advised, 'sometimes you just have to admit that you are enough and deserve better.'
