6 Habits That Scare Men Off Relationships

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Nyakundi Report

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Primary source Kenyan Digest archive

This archive report was first published on 8 August 2019.

Are you tired of meeting men who seem disinterested shortly after meeting you? According to relationship expert Mat Boggs, the problem may lie in how you handle the men who approach you.

Published on August 8, 2019, Boggs released a video highlighting the behaviors that scare men off relationships. Here are the six habits to watch out for:

1. Playing Games

When you play games and try to be someone you're not, men can tell. This behavior can be a major turn-off, making it difficult to build a genuine connection.

2. Not Showing Interest

Playing hard to get is a thing of the past. Men are turned off by women who pretend not to be interested when they're clearly attracted. Showing a man you have no interest can make him lose motivation to pursue you.

3. Treating Him as Perfect

When you perceive a man as perfect, he may feel scared that he'll never meet your expectations. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and make him push you away.

4. Feeling Entitled

According to Boggs, nobody likes people who feel entitled. This includes men who feel like they should take care of you and give you nice things. Instead, be grateful for the efforts your man makes to make you happy.

5. Emasculating Behavior

When you demonstrate that you don't believe your man has what it takes to accomplish a task, it can be emasculating. Let the guy do his job and ask for his permission before offering suggestions or help.

6. Trying to Make Him Like You Instantly

Don't try to force things to happen too fast. When a man feels your rush to get into a commitment, it can kill the connection that could have led to a beautiful relationship. Seek to build a profound connection first before showing your commitment.

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