The Erosion of Traditional Masculinity: Why We Need to Raise Men, Not Boys

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Nyakundi Report

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Primary source Kenyan Digest archive

This archive report was first published on 5 August 2019.

On August 5, 2019, a thought-provoking encounter took place, leaving many to ponder the state of traditional masculinity. A young woman met her partner on a popular online dating site, and their initial meeting was filled with undeniable chemistry.

However, things took a surprising turn when the woman asked her partner to leave her apartment, only to be met with an unexpected proposal: he wanted to move in and take on household chores. This revelation sparked a deeper conversation about the changing dynamics of masculinity.

It's no secret that traditional masculinity is under siege. Gone are the days when men were expected to be the breadwinners and providers. Today, many men are more interested in pursuing careers in the service industry, such as salons and makeup artistry, rather than taking on traditional masculine roles.

The consequences of this shift are far-reaching. Boys are no longer being taught the importance of responsibility, good manners, and resilience. Instead, they're being raised to expect a life of ease and comfort, without being prepared for the challenges that come with it.

As a result, many men are struggling to navigate break-ups and relationships. They're more interested in inflicting pain on their partners rather than working through their issues. This is a far cry from the men of old, who were taught to be strong, resilient, and responsible.

It's time for us to rethink our approach to raising men. We need to teach them the importance of responsibility, good manners, and resilience. We need to show them that life is not a bed of roses, but a journey filled with challenges and opportunities.

By doing so, we can create a new generation of men who are confident, capable, and prepared to take on the world.

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