This archive report was first published on 5 August 2019.
Author Joan Thatiah shares a personal experience of being in a violent relationship with a narcissist, highlighting the dangers of being starved of affection.
When we're in a state of emotional or physical deprivation, our judgment is impaired, and we become more susceptible to making poor choices in men.
Thatiah notes that women who have recently ended a long-term relationship or are experiencing a dry spell are more likely to engage in reckless behavior, including getting back with an ex or having unprotected sex with someone they wouldn't normally consider.
She compares this to being famished and only being able to smell junk food, emphasizing the importance of taking things slow and not rushing into relationships when we're feeling vulnerable.
Thatiah advises women to take along a trusted friend when going out to social events, as they can provide a reality check and help prevent bad choices.
Ultimately, it's essential to recognize our vulnerability and take steps to protect ourselves from making regrettable decisions.
