This archive report was first published on 2 August 2019.
Red Flags of a Kenyan Fvckboy ¶
Are you dating a Kenyan fvckboy? Here are some common red flags to watch out for:
1. He's always talking about sex ¶
Every conversation with your boyfriend is punctuated with the word 'sex'. He finds the most erotic way to make you enjoy the fact that he only sees you as a piece of meat.
He doesn't remove his boxer during sex, making the entire experience feel cheap and unfulfilling.
2. He flirts with other women in front of you ¶
He's hot and he knows it, but he doesn't have the decency to not flirt with other women in front of you. He'll flirt with the waitress, the other girl in the matatu, and even your friends.
He doesn't respect you, and if he did, he'd give you all his attention.
3. He never sets his phone down ¶
His phone is like an extension of his hand. It never seems to leave his body, and when it does, it's only to charge. He's always on vibrate mode, and it's a bigger red flag if he's constantly checking his phone.
He knows he has lots of other women elsewhere, and he understands that he'll be in deep trouble once you get hold of his gadget.
4. He's Nigerian ¶
While this isn't necessarily a red flag, it's worth noting that some Nigerian men have a reputation for being fvckboys.
5. He won't commit ¶
If you've been dating your boyfriend for 6 months and he still hasn't committed, it's probably because he's a fvckboy with many options other than you.
He's not serious with you, and if your goal is to get married, he won't do it. It's a waste of time.
6. He treats you well but only superficially ¶
He's charming and a joy to be with, but he doesn't really know anything about you other than making your body respond to his every touch.
He might not like you that much, but he loves sex, and if he's got it on tap with you, why wouldn't he take advantage?
7. He's very well-groomed and pays a lot of attention to his dressing ¶
Ladies, this is self-explanatory! He's good-looking and a sharp dresser, and he takes care of his well-toned abs. But remember, no man gets a six-pack to date one girl!
