This archive report was first published on 1 August 2019.
As the excitement of a new relationship builds, it's essential to consider the practicalities of marriage. Published on August 1, 2019, a recent article highlighted six key areas to discuss before saying 'I do.'
1. Last Name ¶
Traditionally, women would take their husband's last name, but many now opt out or hyphenate. Couples should discuss whether they'll take up each other's last name to avoid potential disagreements.
2. Finances and Bills ¶
With the current economic climate, it's crucial to discuss how bills will be split or who will cater for household expenses. Having a joint income can ease the financial burden.
3. Living Arrangements ¶
Deciding where to live and establishing a new home can be a significant discussion. Couples should consider their individual needs and preferences to avoid potential conflicts.
4. Religion ¶
Discussing religion is essential, especially if couples have different faiths. They should consider how they'll practice their faith, whether they'll move to each other's side, or maintain their individual practices.
5. Children ¶
While many couples expect children immediately after marriage, it's essential to discuss their desires and expectations. They should consider how many children they want, how to raise them, and which religion they'll practice.
6. In-Laws ¶
Establishing boundaries with in-laws is vital to maintaining a healthy relationship. Couples should discuss how they'll handle visits, set boundaries, and ensure their in-laws don't become a source of contention.
