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The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrow

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 23 July 2019.

Published in 2006, the Dictionary of Obscure Sorrow is a unique collection of words created by John Koenig to describe complex emotions that people often struggle to put into words.

Sonder

Sonder is the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own, populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries, and inherited craziness.

Hanker Sore

A hanker sore is the feeling of being attracted to someone so intensely that it becomes annoying.

Chrysalism

Chrysalism is the amniotic tranquility of being indoors during a thunderstorm.

Occhiolism

Occhiolism is the awareness of the smallness of your perspective in the grandness of the vast scope of the universe.

Kairosclerosis

Kairosclerosis is the moment you realize that you're currently happy and consciously trying to savor the feeling.

Nighthawk

A nighthawk is a recurring thought that only seems to strike you late at night, often related to an overdue task or a nagging guilt.

Pâro

Pâro is the feeling that no matter what you do, you are always somehow wrong, crossing some invisible taboo.

Anemoia

Anemoia is nostalgia for a time you've never known.

Jouska

Jouska is a hypothetical conversation that you compulsively play out in your head.

Heartworm

Heartworm is a relationship or friendship that you can't get out of your head, even though it has faded long ago.

Monachopsis

Monachopsis is the subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.

Liberosis

Liberosis is the desire to care less about things, a self-sabotage feeling that you want to loosen your grip on your life.

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