Njoki Chege claims that in African society, one woman is never enough for a man. She states that a man with only one woman is either poor or impotent.
According to Chege, 99.9% of men who approach her are married men with children and are church-going family men. Despite loving their wives and valuing their families, these men still pursue other women.
Living in Denial ¶
Chege argues that even the most perfect wives cannot prevent their husbands from seeking other relationships. She claims that men are driven by the need to conquer new ground and are always looking for the next exciting experience.
Chege advises married women to accept this reality, stating that technology has made it easier for men to cheat without getting caught. She believes that no marriage is immune to infidelity and that there is always a third party involved, even if it is not immediately apparent.
Men are driven by the need to conquer new ground and are always looking for the next hot thing to spoil. Fewer things give a man the thrill that comes with bedding a young lass he has been lusting after for months.
Chege's comments may be controversial, but she asserts that this is nothing new and that previous generations of women have dealt with similar issues. She suggests that women should focus on their own empowerment rather than trying to change their husbands' behavior.
