Legendary musician Wahu Kagwi, a mother of two daughters, Nyakio and Tumiso, has spoken about the changes she experienced in her marriage after giving birth to her first child.
According to Wahu, the dynamics of her relationship with her husband changed significantly after the birth of their first child, Tumiso. She stated, 'All of a sudden the bulk of our communication revolved around the baby...diapers clinics, feeding, baby poop and all that good stuff.' Wahu noted that while having a new baby brings joy, it can also affect the relationship between partners, especially for first-time parents.
Wahu said that she and her husband often had disagreements due to the anxiety that comes with being first-time parents, which put a strain on their relationship. However, as a second-time mother, she has learned ways to maintain a healthy relationship with her husband after childbirth. She advises first-time mothers to understand that their husbands are also first-time fathers and should not be too hard on them, emphasizing the importance of teamwork, communication, and sharing responsibilities.
Wahu shared her experiences and advice on her blog, offering valuable insights for first-time mothers and fathers.
The recovered account cited reporting by Ghafla.