Njoki Chege has expressed her thoughts on the state of marriages in Kenya, stating that many married women are misguided in thinking that their husbands belong solely to them.
According to Chege, in African society, having multiple partners is common among men. She claims that a man with only one woman is often viewed as either poor or impotent.
Chege's Observations ¶
Chege notes that many married men, despite being devoted to their wives and families, still engage in extramarital affairs. She alleges that 99.9% of men who approach her are married, with some being church leaders or active in their communities.
Chege believes that men are driven by a desire to conquer new relationships and that the concept of a faithful man is unrealistic. She suggests that even men who appear faithful may simply be unaware of their full potential for having multiple partners.
The Role of Technology ¶
Chege also comments on the role of technology in facilitating infidelity, citing the use of WhatsApp and other messaging apps that allow for discreet communication.
Advice to Married Women ¶
Chege advises married women to accept the reality of their husbands' infidelity, stating that there is no such thing as a 'clande-proof' marriage. She urges them to acknowledge the presence of a third party in their relationship and to 'suck it up.'
The recovered account cited reporting by E! News.
