This archive report was first published on 21 July 2019.
The Roots of Dysfunctionality ¶
As we reflect on the recent spotlight on mental illness, it's clear that many of us suffer from some form of mental dysfunctionality. However, unlike those who are locked up in mental institutions, our dysfunctionalities often manifest in our daily lives, affecting our workplaces, social relationships, and love lives.
One of the primary reasons for this is the way we were raised by our parents. Many of us were brought up by parents who were authoritarian, dictatorial, and sometimes even abusive. They would often bark orders, beat us, and utter words that were detrimental to our self-esteem.
Some parents played favourites, showering love, attention, and resources on the children they liked, usually those named after their side of the family. Others had strange habits and attitudes towards things like food, child labour, visitors, and even TV and radio. These habits and attitudes have had a lasting impact on our lives, contributing to our dysfunctionality.
As adults, we often struggle with the consequences of our childhood experiences. We may find ourselves seeking validation from our colleagues, bosses, or even our partners, in an attempt to prove ourselves worthy. Some of us turn to therapy, while others try to mask our issues with material possessions or reckless behaviour.
However, it's time for us to acknowledge the root cause of our dysfunctionality: our parents. It's not easy to confront them, but it's essential that we do. By facing our past and seeking help, we can begin to heal and move forward towards a more fulfilling life.
As the saying goes, 'dysfunctionality starts at home.' It's time for us to take responsibility for our actions and seek the help we need to overcome our issues.
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