This archive report was first published on 13 July 2019.
Published on July 13, 2019, by JACKSON BIKO, a Nation author.
As I sat down with a psychiatrist to discuss mental health, I found myself taking an unexpected ADHD test. The results were not surprising, given my lifelong struggles with focus and impulsivity.
Growing up, I was easily distracted, impatient, and had a short attention span. My handwriting was messy, and I frequently misplaced essential items. Group activities were a nightmare, and following instructions was a constant challenge. My organisational skills were, and still are, lacking.
The psychiatrist's response to my question about relationships was candid: 'People with ADHD will face challenges.' When I asked if this applied to Libras, he simply said, 'Even Libras.'
Are you like me, struggling to pay attention in conversations or constantly zoning out? Do you find yourself agreeing to things you don't remember later, or forgetting important dates like birthdays? These are common traits associated with ADHD.
Forgetting where I placed my car keys is a regular occurrence, and I've had to rely on a password folder to keep track of my online accounts. My partner is always complaining about the mess I leave behind, and I've developed a habit of leaving the fridge door open.
Fixing things around the house is not my forte, and I've been known to pay extra for car rescue services to avoid getting my hands dirty. Changing a flat tyre is not something I take on with enthusiasm, and I've been told that people with ADHD often lack money sense.
However, I've found that I'm not as reckless with money as others might assume. In fact, I've never fought with my partner over finances, unless it's about making enough money.
