This archive report was first published on 13 July 2019.
Published on July 13, 2019, socialite Vera Sidika's decision to reverse her skin lightening has sparked heated debates about role models and body image.
However, the notion that the internet is a suitable place to seek role models is misguided. With the rise of social media influencers, it's essential to recognize that online personas are often curated for financial gain, rather than genuine self-expression.
Moreover, the expectation that women must love and flaunt their bodies, flaws and all, is unrealistic and perpetuates biases against women who don't conform to societal beauty standards.
A more empowering approach is to focus on body ownership, rather than love. This means acknowledging and accepting your body, without feeling pressured to conform to external expectations.
By owning your body, you're free to make choices that prioritize your well-being, without apology or justification. So, be gentle with your body, take care of it, and do what feels right for you – without worrying about what others think.
