This archive report was first published on 12 July 2019.
On July 12, 2019, the issue of colourism and its impact on people of colour was highlighted in a recent article. The article pointed out that the notion of lighter skin being more beautiful and desirable has been perpetuated for generations, dating back to the days of slavery. This mentality has led to millions of shillings being spent on skin-lightening products, with individuals seeking to attain the 'yellow-yellow' skin tone.
As a parent, it can be challenging to teach your child to love their melanin, especially when surrounded by societal beauty standards that promote lighter skin. However, with positive reinforcement and education, children can develop a healthy and positive body image.
Teaching Children to Love Their Melanin ¶
Here are some tips for parents to help their children develop a positive body image and love their melanin:
- Be the example: Children learn by observing their parents, so it's essential to model the behaviour you want your child to adopt. Positively describe your skin tone and appreciate your heritage, and your child will be more likely to do the same.
- Explain the reason for their skin tone: Skin colour is determined by the presence of melanin, a chemical property that protects people of colour from the adverse effects of UV rays. Educate your child on the importance of melanin and how it makes their skin unique.
- Expose them to their heritage: Share stories and information about African history and culture, highlighting the achievements of great African leaders and the beauty of black women. This will help your child develop a sense of pride and connection to their heritage.
- Shut down colourist stereotypes: Colourism is a form of discrimination based on skin colour, and it's essential to educate your child on the difference between colourism and racism. By shutting down these stereotypes, you'll armour your child with facts and a shield that will protect them from colourist attitudes.
By following these tips, parents can help their children develop a positive body image and love their melanin. It's essential to remember that every child is unique, and it may take time and patience to help them develop a healthy and positive self-image.
