The Dangers of Staying Too Long in One Stage of Life

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Primary source Kenyan Digest archive

This archive report was first published on 7 July 2019.

Published on July 7, 2019, by Sunny Bindra, a renowned author and thought leader.

Leaders who refuse to let go of power often end up in a downward spiral, as seen in the history of nations and organizations.

According to Bindra, there's a time and a place for everything in life, and each stage has its own set of priorities and activities. However, when we fail to move on from one stage to another, we risk becoming trapped in a cycle of drama and discomfort.

Bindra cites the Bible (1 Corinthians 13:11) in saying, "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things." This quote highlights the importance of growth and evolution throughout our lives.

Bindra emphasizes that our growth comes from changing our preoccupations and paraphernalia, and that we should not be afraid to let go of the things that no longer serve us. He quotes the Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu, who said, "To attain knowledge, add things every day. To attain wisdom, subtract things every day."

As we age, it's essential to change not only our wardrobes and appetites but also our roles and responsibilities. Bindra suggests that thoughtful persons evolve by coaching others, reducing their active responsibilities, and allowing new thinking to enter the arena.

Ultimately, human achievement is not just about individual success but about being part of a chain of humans on earth over aeons. By embracing handovers and fadeaways as natural and necessary parts of living, we can ensure a smoother transition and a more meaningful legacy.

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