This archive report was first published on 6 July 2019.
Published on July 6, 2019, Dr. Margaret Kagwe, a counselling psychologist and senior consultant at Esteem Counselling Services, sheds light on the reasons behind the rising number of failed marriages.
According to Dr. Kagwe, one of the primary reasons marriages fail today is marrying for the wrong reasons. This can stem from pressure to get married from oneself, family, or society, leading individuals to enter relationships with people they do not truly identify with.
Another reason is unpreparedness. The focus on wedding preparations often overshadows the importance of building a strong foundation for the marriage. As a result, couples may struggle to relate to each other once the initial excitement wears off.
Dr. Kagwe emphasizes the need for effective conflict resolution approaches in marriages. She advises couples to focus on learning and growing together, rather than trying to win arguments. By adopting this mindset, couples can navigate challenges and build a stronger, more resilient relationship.